【 Miu:不教育,不等于无教育 】
教育 2019-05-03 17:30:02 字数:1904

原标题:【 Miu:不教育,不等于无教育 】

Miu:不教育,并不等于无教育。

不教育,是针对于社会普遍的那种落后而死板的教育模式而言,我们不那样教育自己的孩子;

不等于无教育,是指为人父母者自己教育好自己,让自己的心变得广大而自由,成为孩子天然成长的背景,孩子的道路就在你无边无际的心中——她可以自由驰骋;

作为父母你活出来的那种生命自由和成功,就是脱离了痛苦的一种清明而稳定的生存感受,她从小到大只熟悉你那种宁静、喜悦的心灵状态,不会再去为自己制造痛苦,她这样成长和发展出来的整个人生道路,都可以为别人做出指引。

我们生一个孩子,就等于为这个社会撒下一颗种子。

青青:不教育是说大人只能教育自己。

就因为这个社会的大人们都不喜欢教育自己,也不喜欢改变自己,他们只喜欢教育别人——那当然了,对于大人们来说:天真无知的孩子是最容易教育的群体。

Miu:我们的现行教育实际就是因循,并且在因循的基础上扩大欲望的开口。

现在人们认为的“教育成功”,正是期望在社会中达到与众人相比,自己和孩子能够获得这些:金钱财富、名望权力、社会成就……

殊不知,整个“社会”结构都是由人类集体的痛苦和欲望搭就的,这样的获得,离真正的生命自由和成功只会越来越远了。地球盛不下这样无止境的人类欲望。

必须改变了,这个世代(不是时代),已经改变了。

佛陀告诉我们,只有不再用心制造欲望,才能彻底脱离痛苦。

本来人人都是从那无痛苦中来的,脱离痛苦、回归本来,就是生命轮回中真正的大成就。

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